Traveling and Prayers

Hey, we are going to be traveling about 14 hours overall to Lake Traverse Reservation to Sisseton, SD. We are working with Youthworks, http://www.youthworks.com a great team to work with. Please be in prayer. We want God to work in our lives, and speak clearly as a team. This is a week that should be devoted to Him. Thanks for your prayers.

Timing and Trust

God has great, some might even call perfect, timing in life. He sees the large picture, and will orchestrate accordingly. We are only able to see the tiniest slice of the situation. I firmly believe that God takes us along in life in a meandering fashion to build our character and prepare us for the big struggles to come.

Sin is a church way of saying screw-up or disobedience. If God sees the whole picture, and wants the best for us in all areas of our life, then it makes sense to listen to Him and obey Him. But there is such a great degree of trust needed to follow Him that closely. There are times where we have no choice (when circumstances take us out of our control) that we can obey, but usually it is tough to trust. Someone in my life is being a great example trusting God by paying down his checking account to almost nothing to support ministries and God's Kingdom. It doesn't make sense, unless you can trust in the hands that created the world, and can hold the waters of the ocean in the hollow of His palm. There is a big difference failing for being disobedient, and failing by obeying so that God can prepare us for our best life. If God is big and powerful, then we would be foolish not to trust Him with everything we have. So how much do our actions show we actually trust.

Hopefully when people look at my life, and my actions, they will see someone trusting in God, and God's way of doing things.

Control

Janet Jackson's title song off of her 1986 album, Control, spoke of Independence from every one's expectations that were close to her. Here are the lyrics:

This is a story about control, my control
Control of what I say, control of what I do
And this time I'm gonna do it my way
I hope you enjoy this as much as I do
Are we ready? I am? Cause it's all about control
And I've got lots of it

When I was 17, I did what people told me
Did what my father said, and let my mother mold me
But that was long ago

Chorus:
I'm in control, never gonna stop
Control, to get what I want
Control, I got to have a lot
Control, now I'm all grown up

First time I fell in love
I didn't know what hit me
So young and so naive
I thought it would be easy
But now I know I've got to take...

Repeat Chorus

That's right, I'm on my own,
I'll call my own shots, thank you

Bridge:
Got my own mind
I wanna make my own decisions
When it has to do with my life, my life
I wanna be the one in control
So let me take you by the hand
And lead you on this dance
Cause what I've got is because I took a chance
I don't wanna rule the world
Just wanna run my life
So make your life a little easier
When you get the chance just take...

Repeat Chorus

Free at last, out here on my own
Now control this
That's right, career moves
I do what's right for me
And me wants to groove
Is that ok?

Repeat Bridge

Hop to it
I'm in control (and I love it, that's right)
Control, now I've got a lot
Control, now I'm all grown up
I'm in control, I'm in control
Don't make me lose it

So much of what we do in life is trying to gain control. Control of what people think about me, control of how I use my money, control of my job expectations, control of what my significant other treats me, etc. Often people talk about power, freedom, money, or time with the real goal being control of life, control of everything. People (everyone) will lie, cheat, steal, and/or push people around to feel like being in control. When we do that, we are trying to communicate that we are perfect, don't need grace or forgiveness, and that we are God (because we don't make mistakes, need help, or need any one else). Love turns into manipulation, trying to get what we want from someone else. Friendships turn into using people for what they can offer us. Trying to stay in control makes people things to be used for our own personal happiness.

God calls us to something better, an understanding that we are not in control. We need others, and they are every bit as valuable as we are, which means their happiness is as important as ours. That means we need to submit to others, trust them to help us on our journey, and value them as equals. It is difficult, scary, full of troubles, but often worth every step of the way.

Control freaks lead to hypocrisy, trying to create spin control rather honest conversation. People hate hypocrites, and don't want to deal with liars. Many people have judged Jason Giambi, Mark McGuire, Sammy Sosa, and Barry Bonds as cheaters and liars for using performance enhancing drugs. They say things like, "they should just admit it, and retire." It drives me nuts to hear that kind of judgement, because would we be willing to take that step of bravery and courage? How many of us lie over things less important than that? It is easy to treat them as objects rather than people from our position of being outside of the fish bowl. How about we all make the choice to be real, give up control and pride to let God do His part and make the world a better place. It starts with one person making the right choice, will you be willing to do that?

Deep Thoughts..........By Me.

Have you ever wanted to share a great thought? Maybe something that can be shared and touch a life? Tonight is not that night for me. It seems like my streak of thoughts worth sharing is broken for a time. Here is what I am thinking about, and why. Currently the movie Luther is on, a really good movie taking a look at Martin Luther, the reformer, and his times. It is very illuminating to myself to see the outrages of the Christian church then lived out on screen. To see the wonderful message of Christ, about a God who loves us dearly and wants to live with us for Eternity, turned into a money making scheme about earning heaven and rewards from God. But it makes so much sense to do something, or go some a quest, or pay for the joys of heaven. It is a system that makes sense to us, until we look at just how far removed from reality our ability to repay such a debt is. It is simply better not to try and insult the generous King by demanding to pay. We should allow God to bring this great message to as many people as possible out of gratitude. That is the reason we reach out, not because we are avoiding hell by paying our dues, but by passing along God's great love. We should not allow ourselves to become jaded or forgetful of this great love, but always renew by passing along. It is truly a renewable resource.

Forgiveness And The Friendly, Neighborhood Spider-man

This week, our church did a service on Forgiveness using the Spider-man 3 movie. It's title was the Web of Revenge, and focused upon how we need to offer more forgiveness instead of getting caught up into payback, bitterness, anger, and grudges. This is a message I identify with, and is so important to life. What if we truly believed that God's way is always the best way and let go of our frustrations that create baggage in our lives and weigh us down. This week I want to have a discussion with a friend who hurt me and hopefully reconcile a long past wound. Even if he is not interested, it will still be best if I can forgive him and let the power of darkness end its hold in my heart in this area.

The Difference Between Listening And God Getting Your Attention

Well, I have been thinking for awhile about getting a day away to listen for God's call on the life of myself, my family, and my ministry. But it never seems to be convienent, even though it is necessary to wade through what I want to find out what God is actually calling me to do or be. Over the past couple of months, I have had to face a better, more exact picture of who I am, which is really not fun. But through this process the message has always been God's love and witholding this picture until it is the best time to deal with all the baggage that's accumulated. And through this process it has become apparent that a time to seek God is necessary. But I still haven't got around to doing it.

Which leads me to point two. If God is ignored long enough, He beings to get your attention. My 8 month old son does that by screaming full volume, kicking, and banging around. God isn't as blatant always, but sometimes He can do that. He is making it clear through our circumstances, our church finances, that it is time to listen and go to do His work. So now it becomes more imperative to stop and listen for the next step in our journey. God never promised easy, or uncomplicated lives, and this is a small thing to deal with in the big picture. But, He still has gotten my attention.

Inaugeral Post

Here is the first post of this blog. I felt compelled to start this blog so I could access a friends blog without going through the website that is not working well since I didn't bookmark his blog site. So here it is, and maybe we can use this for something positive in life. This totally could have been avoided by knowing how to search the blogosphere properly